R, Thanks for sharing, Renee. Not like this that I feel depressed every time I think about all these things I failed to do. Me and my husband have always been spiritual and my husband believed in the Indian theory of 7 births for a husband and wife , also we believe that Ravens and crows bring messages from our ancestors or ancestors come in their form to show us that they are here and strangely since my husbands passing there has been a family of Ravens coming to my balcony for every meal . My mum passed away yesterday at 2am I went to bed last night & fell asleep. It’s sweet she would come in her way, to comfort you. They would not know anyway. My brother just passed away…He was a long haul truck driver. I have a sister. Thanks for sharing. He is trying to comfort you in all your pain. Almost immediately after seeing the photo on Facebook, I got a phone call from my mom saying that Ted had passed unexpectedly in his sleep. Hi Rita, thanks for sharing your beautiful experience. I’m so sorry for your loss, Dorthi. I love this. I’m not saying this is her situation. My question is after all this time and no contact is it right or wrong to hang on hoping for a sign or communication? I think his legacy will be the following; to speak up intelligently, wisely and confidently when a point needs to be made. Of the words I should have said. Hugs. Hugs. i only have a grandpa and uncle who died but that have been like 15 years since and i never had any scary stuff happening besides a handslap when i just turned around in my bed and it was behind me very clearly handslap..probably just a random spirit passing bye idk, You never know. I don’t know your history, but it could also mean that she can’t face you for some reason. It’s just so hard now. , Yes, she was an amazing pioneer in the work. The next day the light closest to my bed went out. The comments below have not been moderated. Pun intended. My Dad is a good man, a great father. The left brain can be very skeptical. Three nights into this ordeal, having fled to an adjacent town, I was at the end of my rope and despondent enough to think about ‘joining her’. It’s been 5-6 years to our friendship now ! They may come as a partial body to a full body image. They don’t always connect with us the way we expect, but they do connect with us. . 38 days had passed -and on Sunday was the memorial service -since her death and I really felt my mother around. This is what I had to learn and I really believe that this is what it’s coming down to for all of us, if we are to move further towards the light. I’m sure it is more painful than words can express. My greatest inspiration is that with these stories, the veil between heaven and Earth will become so thin that we need not miss our loved ones who has crossed over. His name was Tim. I put it back on and I said I thought it was Grandad. Wow how amazing it does give me hope my daughter passed away oct 7 2017 and she’s forever 23 I miss her dearly and these holidays are tough for me I ask god to give her permission to come hold me kiss me and tell me she loves me and she will always be with me . Thanks for your question. It was as though we heard a voice like they were trying to say something. Can’t say I’m fortunate or not.. Than i asked her to sit on some couch, but she replied that it is difficult for her to sit. I was asking if she’s ok, is the place okay? It’s a good heads up that although there is good in this world, there is are those who would make our lives difficult. If you start to give your Mum the chance that the signs she is sending are real, you will be able to recognize even more of them. Is there anything you can do about that? She took her last breath as I held her laying right beside her…she was my first love, my only true friend, my one consistency in life..not a day went by for 53 yrs did I not talk to her or see her..one or the other. I finished the page and looked up. I’ve been following this page. Our youngest son told me that he was suffering more than I was… I got upset and asked him how can he say that to me, knowing how much I love his father and he said, “you can always fall in love again mom, but I will never have another father.” Oh boy. Hi Allison. Nobody else in my family feels it and they only notice that I’m tired, no other changes in me. It took my breath away. We had the tightest bond that I have ever had with a man. sometimes i’m thinking like, i want to go with him. I had a dream about my dad. Yes, he will be able to forgive you. It is most likely that they have… and still do! Based on their research, these are the twelve most frequent types of ADC’s people report having with their deceased loved ones: I really miss those dreams when he came to be by my side. Sometimes it just takes time. Loneliness? I told him dad mommy has your bible and he said ok but can you get me another one and a book about hummingbirds. I have had a busy week and I have not had dreams that I can recall. You are not alone, there are many out there who know just how you feel. right? I’m so sad for her husband, who found her in their beautiful home, after having been out of town on business. Your father appeared the age he is at his preferred age. My condolences to you, and blessings for sign to let you know your sweet mom is with you. ❤️. Of course she loves you and doesn’t want you to be in pain. a few nights ago my mom said she seen a shadow in my room while she was in the living room and she said it was moving around she got closer but nothing was there but she did say my slippers were by my bed when she just clean my room an hr before she seen the shadow….and last night my mom gave my 3 year old something to drink in a plastic cup and sat it by her my kids slept with my mom last night and my mom said she didn’t sleep at all so when she walked in my room early this morning she said the cup was right next to my bed and she was the only one up. He wants you to know that he is thinking of you. I think you are right. There are people who never even have an ADC after their loved one passes, then suddenly 20 or 30 years later have one of them. Its like I have a dark cloud hanging over me. I go through different emotions of sadness depression loneliness and then anger because of the way he was killed and because of the person who did it was very close to him. So sorry. Thanks for writing in. In one, I sat on a bench near a lake to grieve for a while, and a dragonfly came by and paused on a blade of grass that was a foot away from me. Is it possible she’s trying to communicate with me? Try to raise his awareness so he can release himself from his own self-imposed prison of denial. People might say this was just my eyes playing tricks on me, maybe my eye movement caught the alarm clock on the other side of the bed. He was only 19! At the end of his life I felt this peace just before he passed. “You came to me in my dream just now. Since I’m not a particularly spiritual person I never attached much special meaning to these occurences, but rather put them down to coincidence, even though I did find them a bit unusal. Suddenly, the cardinal landed within hands reach. Go to a quiet place u don’t have speak out loud (but u can) but when u speak don’t speak to them as there dead because they are not “dead” as we know it they are alive and know far more then we do they are able being no sickness no pain clear minds !!!! It is sudden and we had no chance to talk nor see each other. The second time was in our bedroom and there was a loud bang on the wardrobe where I was standing I’m not sure why she would say those things. My dad passed way about a month ago, since then I can’t count the number of times a light has burnt out, the number of times we’ve see the number 6666 and the number of times my dad has tried to talk through my daughter either in a dream or in a time when she’s alone and texting. Sometimes our loved ones visit many, many years later. My Grandad died in the late nineties and a few years later we were talking about him while watching TV. Dear Emerald. Could be that he is still in a familiar area, trying to deal with what’s happened, hoping someone familiar and close by can help him. I was sitting outside today and my light foils in the yard has three lights. I just think that was his time to go. So sorry for your loss. My mom passed away 2 months ago today. What do you think this means? 1. Thankyou. So sorry for your loss, Brittany. My father in law and I were very close and I hope this was his way to let me know that he is doing just fine. DR MARTIN SCURR answers your health questions. I cried a lot & blamed myself for being busy and for not meeting him earlier. He hung up. He is always with you. I’m desperate to speak to him, he was poorly with Huntingdons disease but he suddenly died of heart failure. . When someone else is getting the information for you, how do you even know? Just a thought, but can you say a little more about him walking away? but he has gone:( at least i want to get few signs to know that he is here to comfort me. It sounds like you may be intuitive, as well. Financially we are not doing well. I am not proud to say I am an insecure and jealous girlfriend and because he had quite an eye for ladies and loved female attention, I have done things I am not proud of to deter him from getting close or involved with other women. Very comforting. Please help me to slow down my mind and body so I can feel my love Frank’s present. It’s just that I am so frustrated at my own inability to perceive my own thoughts that I wonder if I will ever be able to recognize the signs he sends me. I’d love to hear about it. I don’t know about the addresses, but the GI Joe would seem like he was being haunted and pursued by his life’s challenges. i thought it was the light bulb but then notice it was the circuit breaker. Take care and always know that love is the bond that binds us together. So sorry for your loss. Thank you. A sign could be anything. Please help me to slow down to feel him. It was later I realized that he was probably there and my emotions was a deep sense of loss. I’m sure this experience must have been unsettling, if not horrifying. A couple of days later around 5:00 AM I woke up and had been lying in bed for a while and decided to get up to use the restroom. A few hours before his accident he had called me and asked me why I hadn’t called him the whole day. I agree completely with you. xo. That was my sign that Uncle Ted and his wife Sara were together … a double rainbow. In the 23 years I’ve lived in this house I have never once seen a Hummingbird! You can write me at jade@griefandmourning.com and I will see if I can get any clarity. It just depends on perspective. There is peace… Tho her heart aches for you because she knows you are devastated. 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